When you get too comfortable with someone, you tend to take them for granted. Sometimes I think too much, and sometimes other people think too much. Everyone had that something that they overthink about. It's just their "thing". 

I used to be, or still am a very dominant person. I have very strong opinions and I dislike being refuted. Growing up, I had alot of problems doing project work. I was so results orientated I often disregarded people's feelings to achieve my objective. Soon, people started to dislike working with me. Everything had to be done my way, and I was often closed minded and disregarded other people's ideas. 

Now, as a more matured adult, I still face the same difficulties. I find it difficult to work with people. I may have the occasional thought that everything would be easier if I just worked alone. But I came to cherish the different views, the different thoughts that made a project much more objective and well thought. 

I'm lucky because I found a project partner who accepts me for who I am, understands that when I get frustrated or annoyed that I don't mean the things I say. Who always looks at things objectively and accepts responsibility for his actions. And this person is not only my project partner, but also my life partner. We have many many obstacles to face and challenges ahead of us, but he is one person I would cherish for life. And I'm giving a note to myself never to take him for granted. ( See our blog on some amazing date ideas that could spice up your dates at http://thenomadbaristas.blogspot.sg/2014/07/15-quirky-date-ideas.html ).

This is a shoutout to Abbas, for being the most awesome person in my life, for teaching me so much about life and for moulding me into a person that you and I would love more. Thank you for your patience with me, bearing with all my moodswings and my temperaments. For all the times when I cry for stupid reasons and overthink situations, thank you for still loving me.